{"id":2535,"date":"2019-04-07T09:00:29","date_gmt":"2019-04-07T09:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ruxandravoinea.ro\/?p=2535"},"modified":"2019-04-07T10:49:41","modified_gmt":"2019-04-07T10:49:41","slug":"tatal-mama-bebelusii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ruxandravoinea.ro\/index.php\/2019\/04\/07\/tatal-mama-bebelusii\/","title":{"rendered":"Tat\u0103l \u0219i bebelu\u0219ii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mama introduc\u00e2nd tat\u0103l \u00een lumea bebelu\u0219ului<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Mama are nevoie de so\u021b s\u0103 o sprijine \u0219<\/strong>i s\u0103 ia decizii \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/strong>Ea se confrunt\u0103 cu temeri \u0219i nel\u0103muriri ca t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 m\u0103mic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mama are un rol major \u00een crearea rela\u021biei dintre tata \u0219i copilul lui<\/strong>. \u00cel poate implica \u00een activit\u0103\u021bile bebelu\u0219ului.
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\"mama<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Mamele au dificult\u0103\u021bi \u00een a-i permite copilului s\u0103 se separe. Tat\u0103l poate s\u0103 tempereze intensitatea rela\u021bei dintre copil \u0219i mama, c\u00e2nd acesta \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 fie independent.<\/strong>
Exemplele pot fi multiple:copilul \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 experimenteze activ sufrageria, bebelu\u0219ul poate dormi singur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Importan\u021ba tat\u0103lului \u00een via\u021ba bebelu\u0219ului<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Tat\u0103l o ajut\u0103 pe mama s\u0103 se simta bine fizic \u015fi fericit\u0103 emo\u0163ional. <\/strong>Copilul este martor la o relatie bun\u0103 dintre p\u0103rin\u0163i. Astfel va crede c\u0103 via\u0163a este u\u015foar\u0103, va deveni optimist \u015fi este un copil mai lini\u015ftit, mai relaxat – securizat social.
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Cite\u015fte \u015fi despre “Copiii la psihoterapeut”<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"mama<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Rolul tat\u0103lui este s\u0103 \u00eei ofere sprijin mamei, s\u0103 o sus\u021bin\u0103 \u00een crearea autorit\u0103\u021bii, s\u0103 reprezinte legea \u0219i ordinea pe care mama le s\u0103de\u015fte \u00een via\u021b\u0103 copilului.<\/strong> El nu trebuie s\u0103 fie prezent tot timpul pentru a face asta. Este important s\u0103 apar\u0103 des \u0219i constant, s\u0103 fie o prezen\u021b\u0103 real\u0103 \u0219i vie. Copiilor le place s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 un p\u0103rinte rezolva problemele c\u00e2nd cel\u0103lalt este absent. Mama poate fi autoritar\u0103, dar este dificil c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 reprezinte totul. Presiunea este una mare atunci c\u00e2nd ea trebuie s\u0103 re\u0103rezinte via\u021b\u0103 copilului at\u00e2t elementul puternic \u0219i sever, c\u00e2t \u0219i iubirea. E mai simplu \u0219i pentru copii s\u0103 aib\u0103 doi p\u0103rin\u021bi: unul poate fi ur\u00e2t, \u00een timp ce cel\u0103lalt este iubit, \u0219i ulterior invers. C\u00e2nd tat\u0103l nu este prezent s\u0103 stabileasc\u0103 limitele copilul poate fi agresiv cu mama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diferen\u021ba ca factor de dezvoltare
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Tat\u0103l \u00eenglobeaz\u0103 tr\u0103s\u0103turilor care \u00eel diferen\u021biaz\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi<\/strong> \u0219i personalit\u0103\u021bii sale puternice. Momentul cel mai bun \u00een care b\u0103ie\u021belul sau feti\u021b\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i poate cunoa\u0219te tat\u0103l este la \u00eenceputul vie\u0163ii, c\u00e2nd impresiile sunt foarte puternice. Unii copii \u00eel vor cunoa\u0219te \u00een realitate<\/strong>, al\u021bii, datorit\u0103 absen\u021bei frecvente a tat\u0103lui, vor avea nevoie s\u0103 \u0219i-l imagineze<\/strong>. Dac\u0103 tat\u0103l este prezent \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 se implice \u00een rela\u021bia cu copilul, \u00eei va \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi semnificativ experien\u021b\u0103. Dac\u0103 ambii p\u0103rin\u021bi \u00eempart responsabilitatea unei familii, ea va fi zona de cre\u0219tere pentru copilul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"mama<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Copilul poate avea acces la un mod distinct de a \u00een\u021belege via\u021b\u0103, pasiuni diferite, activit\u0103\u021bi diferite, o profesie diferit\u0103, modalit\u0103\u021bi particulare de a reac\u021biona la o aceea\u0219i experien\u021b\u0103, o varietate \u00een a exprim\u0103 tr\u0103irile emo\u021bionale. P\u0103rin\u021bii care au profesii pe care le efectueaz\u0103 la domiciliu vor vedea bucuria copilului de a fi l\u00e2ng\u0103 el \u0219i de a-l ajut\u0103. Un pictor, un scriitor, un ITst, un buc\u0103tar, un cizmar etc. uneori \u00eel implic\u0103 \u00een activitatea lui sau se implic\u0103 el \u00een jocul copilului.
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Este important c\u0103 tat\u0103l s\u0103 fie idealizat \u00een momentele de absen\u021ba<\/strong>, dar \u0219i s\u0103 fie prezent \u00een mod real al\u0103turi de copil, cu defectele inerente<\/strong>. De exemplu, un tat\u0103 care a murit c\u00e2nd copilul era mic sau \u00eenainte de na\u0219terea lui, va fi un tat\u0103 absent, idealizat \u0219i deci perfect. Imaginea tat\u0103lui, fiind pus\u0103 pe un piedestal, este greu s\u0103 concureze cu orice b\u0103rbat cunoscut ulterior\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Va urma…<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bibliografie<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Colocvii de psihanaliz\u0103, coordonator Vera \u015eandor<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Itinerar de psihanaliz\u0103, Vera \u015eandor<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crearea \u015fi ruperea leg\u0103turilor afective, John Bowlby<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Procese de maturizare, Winnicott<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Limbajul lui Winnicott, Jan Abram<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copilul, familia \u015fi lumea interioar\u0103, Winnicott<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Puncte de cotitur\u0103; de la na\u015ftere la 3 ani, dezvoltarea emo\u0163ional\u0103 \u015fi comportamental\u0103 a copilului t\u0103u, Brazelton<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Puncte de cotitur\u0103; de 3 la 6 ani, dezvoltarea emo\u0163ionala \u015fi comportamental\u0103 a copilului t\u0103u, Brazelton<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ruxandra Voinea<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Telefon: 0724551022<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Email: voinea_ruxandra_cristina@yahoo.com <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

valorificarepersonala@gmail.com <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n

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