{"id":2097,"date":"2018-07-06T15:17:44","date_gmt":"2018-07-06T15:17:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ruxandravoinea.ro\/?p=2097"},"modified":"2019-02-17T20:53:25","modified_gmt":"2019-02-17T20:53:25","slug":"adolescenta-o-enigma-pentru-parinti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ruxandravoinea.ro\/index.php\/2018\/07\/06\/adolescenta-o-enigma-pentru-parinti\/","title":{"rendered":"Adolescen\u021ba o enigm\u0103? II"},"content":{"rendered":"

Este adolescen\u021ba o enigm\u0103? Pentru p\u0103rinte sau pentru cel ce tr\u0103ie\u0219te aceasta perioad\u0103?<\/em><\/p>\n

Adolescentul este provocator, g\u0103se\u0219te u\u0219or punctele fine de vulnerabilitate sau dac\u0103 nu le intuie\u0219te cre\u0219te intensitatea provoc\u0103rilor. \u00cen schimb este sensibil la critic\u0103, la sugestii, schimb\u00e2ndu-\u0219i abordarea \u00een func\u021bie de persoan\u0103, asem\u0103n\u0103tor unui cameleon, apel\u00e2nd la  clivaje (oamenii sunt fie cei mai tari, fie cei mai na\u0219pa). P\u0103rin\u021bii rareori le intr\u0103 \u00een gra\u021bii, fiind percepu\u021bi fie ca insensibili, fie ca prea intruzivi, fie ca \u00eencuia\u021bi, dep\u0103\u0219i\u021bi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cite\u0219te \u0219i “Adolescen\u021ba, o enigm\u0103? I”<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Scurt\u0103 analiz\u0103<\/h5>\n

\"imagineEmanciparea se face prin accesul cu poten\u021bial aparent nelimitat. Eul<\/strong> structurat \u00een perioada anterioar\u0103 este invadat de pulsiuni, iar Supraeul <\/strong>este pus la \u00eencercare, umbrit de o pleiad\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri debusolante. Copilul docil, dr\u0103g\u0103la\u0219 se translateaz\u0103 \u00een pielea puberului furios, u\u0219or inflamabil la orice remarc\u0103, cu capul \u00een nori, atras de poten\u021biali parteneri, expansiv sau taciturn, con\u0219tient ca are \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 deschise numeroase por\u021bi \u00eens\u0103 indecis ce drum s\u0103 aleag\u0103.<\/p>\n

Imaginea de sine<\/strong><\/h5>\n

Imaginea de sine<\/strong> sufer\u0103 o muta\u021bie, adolescentul test\u00e2nd realitatea exterioar\u0103, pentru a o putea integra o prespectiv\u0103 personal\u0103 a lumii. Practic adolescentul trece de la dependen\u021b\u0103 la independen\u021b\u0103 prin manipularea \u0219i vehicularea proprie a unor concep\u021bii. Astfel se explic\u0103 frecventele treceri de la o pozi\u021bie filosofic\u0103 la alt\u0103, valori la care pare c\u0103 ader\u0103 \u0219i ulterior apare o schimbare major\u0103: “De la o zi la alta se schimb\u0103. M\u0103 debusoleaz\u0103.” Trebuie s\u0103 se reg\u0103seasc\u0103 noul corp, adic\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i integreze imaginea corporal\u0103. Totodat\u0103, el caut\u0103 confirm\u0103ri \u00een jur, cer\u00e2nd feedback celor din jur despre comportamentul s\u0103u, av\u00e2nd nesf\u00e2r\u0219ite discu\u021bii pe diverse teme.<\/p>\n

Cite\u0219te \u0219i “Adolescen\u021bii \u0219i mirajul canabisului”<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

“Imaginea, aparen\u021ba pe care adul\u021bii o dau despre ei, imaginea pe care copilul \u0219i-o f\u0103cea despre ei este oare <<adev\u0103rul>> despre ei, sau este doar o fa\u021bad\u0103, doar <<praf \u00een ochi>>?”<\/p>\n

Adolescentul \u0219i psihoterapeutul<\/strong><\/h5>\n

\"adolescent<\/p>\n

Psihoterapeutul<\/strong> va trebui s\u0103 fie aliatul adolescentului \u0219i liantul dintre cele dou\u0103 genera\u021bii. Adolescentul poate avea \u00eencredere \u00een terapeut, \u00eens\u0103 o rela\u021bie terapeutic\u0103 se stabile\u0219te greu \u0219i apar mereu \u00eempleticeli, \u00een rela\u021bia cu noul adult fiind proiectate toate celelalte rela\u021bii cu adul\u021bii din jur, ap\u0103r\u00e2nd frecvente oscila\u021bii, ca o excursie continu\u0103 \u00eentr-un Montagne Russe. Terapeutul se afl\u0103 constant \u00een fa\u021ba unui con\u021binut arhaic, dinamic, scurtcircuitat de excita\u021bii pulsionale, de emo\u021bii flambate, de motiva\u021bii interioare paradoxale \u0219i inconsistente, de concep\u021bii ce se afl\u0103 \u00een plin proces de dezvoltare \u0219i prelucrare, fiind inconsistente \u0219i inconstante, ca un nor de fum.<\/p>\n

Niciun adolescent nu \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te o terapie el nu are nicio problem\u0103, ceilal\u021bi trebuie s\u0103 se schimbe. \u0218i chiar dac\u0103 ar considera c\u0103 are ni\u0219te impedimente, “A\u0219a sunt eu \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 accep\u021bi a\u0219a cum sunt”. G\u00e2ndirea se afl\u0103 \u00eentr-un con de umbr\u0103, rupt\u0103 de reprezent\u0103ri fidele \u0219i constante, ideile se schimb\u0103 de la un moment la altul \u0219i deocamdat\u0103 nu exista capacitatea de coagulare a lor \u0219i persisten\u021ba \u00een timp. Pentru a putea avea acces la el terapeutul \u00eencearc\u0103 o serie de maniere de interac\u0163iune, atipice altei grupe de v\u00e2rst\u0103: vorbeste, povesteste, exemplific\u0103, relateaz\u0103 cre\u00e2nd semnifica\u021bie, reprezent\u0103ri, coeren\u021b\u0103, suport, cu alte cuvinte un nou model la care adolescentul s\u0103 se poat\u0103 raporta.<\/p>\n

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Bibliografie<\/h6>\n

Manual de psihologie \u0219i psihopatologie clinic\u0103 general\u0103 – Rene Roussillion<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\n

Ruxandra Voinea,<\/p>\n

Psiholog \u0219i Psihoterapeut<\/p>\n

Telefon: 0724551022<\/a><\/p>\n

Email: voinea_ruxandra_cristina@yahoo.com <\/a><\/p>\n

valorificarepersonala@gmail.com <\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Adolescentul este provocator, g\u0103se\u0219te u\u0219or punctele fine de vulnerabilitate sau dac\u0103 nu le intuie\u0219te cre\u0219te intensitatea provoc\u0103rilor. \u00cen schimb este sensibil la critic\u0103, la sugestii, schimb\u00e2ndu-\u0219i abordarea \u00een func\u021bie de persoan\u0103, asem\u0103n\u0103tor unui cameleon, apel\u00e2nd la clivaje (oamenii sunt fie cei mai tari, fie cei mai na\u0219pa). P\u0103rin\u021bii rareori le intr\u0103 \u00een gra\u021bii, fiind percepu\u021bi fie ca insensibili, fie ca prea intruzivi, fie ca \u00eencuia\u021bi, dep\u0103\u0219i\u021bi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2056,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[3],"tags":[17,19,20,18,21],"aioseo_notices":[],"yoast_head":"\nAdolescen\u021ba o enigm\u0103? II - adolescenta o enigma pentru parinti<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Adolescenta o enigma. Adolescentul este provocator, g\u0103se\u0219te u\u0219or vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bile. 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